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How To Help Someone With Dementia Make Decisions

Valuable Tips From Whispering Winds of Apple Valley Memory Care

Helping a loved one with Alzheimer’s or dementia make decisions can be complex and often challenging. It is important to let people make their own decisions and feel independent, even if that means making an occasional mistake. As caregivers, we can support and empower them without taking away their autonomy.

At Whispering Winds of Apple Valley, memory care is a service our specialists offer that helps loved ones live with autonomy and purpose. We understand the importance of giving people the information they need to make decisions.

What choices can a person with dementia make?

Making decisions about medications or selling a home can be stressful and challenging for anyone, including someone with dementia. In some cases, it may not be advisable to involve them in such choices. However, other decisions, such as daily activities and meals, can be excellent ways to make them feel included and valued.

As caregivers, we must understand that people with dementia have varying levels of cognitive abilities and mental states, and they may struggle with complex decisions or become overwhelmed. But that does not mean they can no longer play a role in their lives.

Choosing something as simple as a movie to watch or a location to visit can give them a sense of purpose, control, and belonging. Such actions can be a great way to improve their mood and quality of life.

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How To Help People With Dementia Make Decisions

Despite the challenges faced by people with dementia, they should still be allowed to make decisions and feel included in their daily lives, provided they are not overwhelmed or stressed.

As caregivers, we must find ways to empower and support people with dementia, providing choices that give them a sense of purpose and control.

When it’s time to make a decision, give the loved one plenty of:

  • Background information
  • Time to process
  • Pictures or visual clues

Don’t overload your loved one with too many choices or questions. Go one at a time and simplify them by offering a yes or no question and two options.

Ask your loved one if they:

  • Want to eat soup or a sandwich
  • Want to read a book or go for a walk
  • Want to listen to music or paint a picture

Another helpful tip to support loved ones is choosing a time of day when the person is more alert and receptive. Asking questions before bedtime may not be best.

Knowing how to communicate appropriately with a loved one with Alzheimer’s or dementia is also essential.

Communicate Properly with a Person with Memory Loss

Communicating with someone with dementia can be challenging, but it is essential to maintain a respectful and empathetic approach.

There are various ways to communicate more effectively with someone with dementia. For example:

  • It is crucial to speak slowly, clearly, and use simple language
  • It may be helpful to use gestures or visual cues to convey your message, such as pointing to an object or using a picture
  • Maintain eye contact and a calm tone of voice
  • Don’t use “baby talk”
  • Respectful communication involves active listening

People with dementia may take longer to process information and express their thoughts, but giving them time and patience is crucial. Encouraging them to express themselves freely and actively listening without interrupting or correcting them can bolster their self-worth and promote positive interactions.

At Whispering Winds of Apple Valley, we use these communication strategies daily. Residents have the tools they need to express themselves and feel heard.

Data-Based Memory Care in Apple Valley

We offer a data-based neuroplasticity memory care program called Connections at Whispering Winds of Apple Valley. The program comprises cognitive and physical exercises designed to improve reasoning and decision-making through:

  • Connecting with others socially
  • Staying active physically
  • Learning new skills and hobbies

Empowering residents and offering them decision-making opportunities is essential to their autonomy and well-being. Our highly trained experts are available 24/7 to support our residents, promote their independence, and encourage them to thrive as individuals.

Residents are encouraged to participate in various activities daily, from gardening and crafting to music and games. Our dementia care team ensures activities are tailored to each individual’s needs, preferences, and abilities. We do this to promote inclusion and create a sense of community.

Our team works with our residents and their families, helping them adjust to changes in behavior and effectively communicate with love, patience, and respect.

Allowing a loved one with Alzheimer’s or dementia to feel independent is essential to their well-being and sense of self-worth. At Whispering Winds of Apple Valley, we emphasize clear communication and active listening, using the strategies endorsed by experts in the field. Let our team help you and your loved one navigate the complexities of dementia with empathy and understanding.

 

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Contact us to learn more about supporting a loved one with memory loss. Discover how Connections is working to support family caregivers and offer loved one’s independence.

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